Who are Ally Parents? What do we do?

We are a group of parents who have come together because we have a transgender child. We live all across the United States. Our children are at different ages and at different stages along their journeys. Some are just beginning to transition, some are living authentically as adults already. We come from different backgrounds and most of us have actually not met (yet). What we have in common is an unconditional LOVE for our children. We are allies to the transgender community.

Ally Parents are here to help any trans/non-binary person. We are also available to chat with parents who need some support.
We are:
  • available via text
  • available via phone/talk
  • limited availability to emailing
  • parents of trans individuals
  • affirming, supportive and safe
  • available from 9am-11pm EST most days
  • love at the other end of the phone
  • trained and vetted via a thorough background check
We are not:
  • crisis counselors
  • therapists, social workers or licensed counselors
  • available in the middle of the night yet

Access the comprehensive list of Ally Parents by clicking here.

Check out the PrideSource article covering Ally Parents!

Lindstrom, MN

Bullard, TX

Ann Arbor, MI

Canby, OR

Ledyard, CT

Roseville, CA

Longmont, CO

Plymouth, WI

Sausalito, CA

Plainview, NY

Arlington, VA

Nashville, TN

Temple, TX

Temperance, MI

Berkeley, CA

San Diego, CA

Stanhope, NJ

Palm Coast, FL

Westfield, NJ

Elmira, NY

Platte City, MO

Newaygo, MI

Brisbee, AZ

Portland, OR

Santa Fe, NM

Rutland, MA

Amarillo, TX

Fort Belvoir, VA

West Sacramento, CA

Sevierville, TN

Bellevue, NE

Indianapolis, IN

Lake Worth, FL

Annandale, VA

Wharton, NJ

Woodland Hills, CA

Pittsburg, CA

West Lafayette, IN

Paoli, PA

Lexington, KY

Flat Rock, MI

Brooklyn, NY

Brunswick, ME

Jefferson, MD

Norman, OK

Sherman Oaks, CA

Charlottesville, VA

Lake Stevens, WA

Charlottesville, VA

Greenbrae, CA

Richmond, TX

Bethesda, MD

Lyme, NH

Little Elm, TX

Oshawa, ON, CAN

Cincinnati, OH

Vinemont, AL

Allen, TX

Newtonville, MA

Oklahoma City, OK

Pottstown, PA

Roseville, CA

Chandler, OK

Hilton Head Island, SC

Denver, CO

Germantown, WI

Metairie, LA

Ithaca, NY

Hedgesville, WV

North Hampton, NH

Lake Stevens, WA

Springfield, OH

Bluefield, WV

Cambridge, MA

Redondo Beach, CA

Los Angeles, CA

New Philadelphia, OH

Cottonwood, AZ

Anchorage, AK

Herndon, VA

Oviedo, FL

McFarland, WI

Farmington, MI

Lake Orion, MI

Novato, CA

Roseville, MI

Shreveport, LA

Owl's Head, ME

Jersey City, NJ

Fort Irwin, CA

Draper, UT

Cary, NC

South Pasadena, CA

Lincoln, NE

Washington, MO

Ellenburg Center, NY

Rochester Hills, MI

Harvard, MA

Fort Worth, TX

Suwanee, GA

Haysville, KS

Miami, FL

Albany, CA

Carrboro, NC

Concord, CA

Omaha, AZ

Maple Valley, WA

Smyrna, TN

Gilman, IL

Tiffin, OH

Troy, MI

Boca Raton, FL

Walpole, MA

Watford City, ND

Villa Rica, GA

Fruita, CO

Santa Cruz, CA

Lakewood, OH

Hermosa Beach, CA

Huntington Woods, MI

San Rafael, CA

Erie, PA

San Ramon, CA

Edina, MN

Macomb, MI

Eagle, ID

Goleta, CA

Washington, MI

Normal, IL

Washington, D.C.

New Brighton, MN

Laredo, TX

Waldo, AR

Bellingham, MA

Topsham, ME

Weston, FL

Fort Collins, CO

Middleboro, MA

Oakland, CA

Bellevue, WA

Alpharetta, GA

Crystal Lake, IL

Champaign, IL

Port Huron, MI

Burns, WY

Costa Mesa, CA

Stratford, CT

Monroe, WA

Herriman, UT

Saco, ME

Independence, IA

Madison, AL

Waterford, WI

Venice, FL

Cascade, IA

Duluth, MN

Farmington Hills, MI

Barnum, MN

Ridgeland, MS

Manchester, MO

Round Lake, IL

Burke, VA

Rochester, IL

Kirksville, MO

Lenexa, KS

San Jose, CA

Sheridan, WY

Watertown, TN

Trabuco Canyon, CA

Waverly, OH

Tulsa, OK

Detroit, MI

North Platte, NE

Redmond, WA

Livermore, CA

La Crosse, WI

West Lebanon, IN

Furlong, PA

Henderson, NV

St. Johns, MI

Jackson, MI

Rochester, NY

Glenville, NY

Auburn, WA

Wilsonville, OR

Cheshire, CT

New Rochelle, NY

Wilmington, NC

Trumbull, CT

Santa Rosa, CA

Brookfield, WI

Boise, ID

New York, NY

Haslett, MI

White Salmon, WA

Massapequa, NY

Evanston, IL

Amston, CT

Spokane, WA

DeWitt, MI

Cleveland, OH

Lincolnwood, IL

Oak Park, MI

Rehoboth Beach, DE

Kansas City, MO

Littleton, CO

Chesapeake Beach, MD

North Andover, MA

Chicago, IL

South Haven, MI

North Berwick, ME

Norfolk, VA

Cameron, NC

Wellston, MI

Wynnewood, PA

Castle Rock, CO

Tuscon, AZ

Lawrence, KS

Keller, TX

Rutledge, PA

Topsham, ME

Colorado Springs, CO

Eliot, ME

Albuquerque, NM

Hollywood, FL

Chesterfield, MO

Atlanta, GA

Brooklyn, NY

Poughkeepsie, NY

Fayetteville, NC

Dexter, MI

Denham Springs, LA

Reno, NV

Seattle, WA

Gilbert, AZ

Warner Robins, GA

Geneseo, NY

Raleigh, NC

Starkville, MS

Longview, WA

Lee’s Summit, MO

Interested in becoming an Ally Parent?

Interested in being loving support for a trans youth and/or a resource for a fellow parent? Contact Judie at judie@standwithtrans.org for information on how to apply.

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